Admit defeat to your limiting beliefs!

One quick and easy way to get rid of a limiting belief is to affirm the belief, as it is believed by you already, as if it were absolutely true – even though it isn’t necessarily, but it also is, since The Universe is non-dual, therefore the truth is in both the polarities of one belief.

Let me explain! Since what I wrote there – I’m not sure it might even make even sense to me were I to read it without knowing what I meant.

If you believe you’re ‘stupid”, but you want to make yourself believe you’re smart, so as to change your self-concept to a better one, with better beliefs, you must first admit the first belief – that you are stupid. Not because you are, but because you believe it.

If all you desire in your life is to be smart, and you run around chasing that, trying to get validation from everybody, not getting it (obviously, because you don’t believe it) – you will sigh a deep sigh of relaxation when you finally admit it – “I am stupid!”.

You will kiss the Earth and jump of joy in disbelief. It was so simple! To admit it in this case, is to say – I don’t care if anyone thinks I’m stupid, I already admitted it to myself, therefore, what and whom have I got to lose?

If people will call me stupid, I won’t feel even the tiniest bit triggered, since I’ve admitted it, so I have nothing to hide.

Again, it doesn’t mean the guy or girl in the example is actually stupid. He/she just had a belief that said that, and instead of admitting, he/she tried to prove themselves as smart.

Now that they’ve admitted, it’s much easier to see and admit the opposite – that they are, indeed, smart. They can suddenly see all the ways in which they are smart.

Now to explain a bit about the last part of the first paragraph I wrote here in this post, just to make a paranthesis.

This world is dual (good/bad, ugly/beautiful, stupid/smart, white/black), but God, or Source is non-dual, therefore to get closer to the truth of who we really are, we must encompass all the polarities. Therefore we must know and accept ourselves as both stupid and smart, beautiful and ugly, light and dark, good and bad.

Think about that for a moment.

Now to go back to the subject of the post, admitting defeat to our limiting beliefs, we can do that to any belief.

Let’s say our deepest desire was to become rich. But because we are not there yet, we certainly are seeing ourselves as poor in one way or another. Even if we are not poor per se, the belief is there.

Same goes with unworthiness. “I am unworthy of riches, unworthy of love”, unworthy of this or that.

And suddenly a whole world opens up. A world where it’s comfortable to sit in our mud for a little bit and just contemplate our beliefs from their own point of view, and therefore point of attraction.

Because, of course, what we believe, even subconsciously, we attract. So the more we believe those negative things, the more we attract them.

So go ahead, what belief have you uncovered today that you can turn around?

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What keeps us from having more MONEY than we can possibly hold in our hands

What keeps us from having more money than we could possibly hold in our hands, is quite simply, our beliefs.

When we are aligned with the energy of receiving money constantly, consistently, for the work that we love and our passionate about, clients, opportunities and money flocks to use in immesurate amounts.

Quite simply, the more money we believe we are worthy and deserving of getting, the more we receive it, easefully.

I’ve been interested in selling my course, “The Manifesting Princess” to my audience on Facebook.

Here is what I’m offering in the course:

The 20 LIVES in my coaching container for 20 beings will have these topics:

🌸1. ALIGNMENT & BOUNDARIES – How to stay aligned even when everybody in your life energetically tells you otherwise and what is deep alignment

🌸2. BOUNDARIES – How to always know how and when to say a profund, complete NO and how to take time for yourself when you need it without sacrificing business, money, relationships

🌸3. FREEDOM – How to feel free within yourself, how to use your throat chakra to ask for whatever you want and get it, + journalling techniques to feel FREE

🌸4. LIMITING BELIEFS – We work together to debunk any limiting beliefs you might have regarding money, relationships and health. I show you how I do it.

🌸5. MANIFESTING (1) – My 2 Pinterest techniques that have worked wonders for me, and how to use them – we do this together as a DIY project and you get to use this technique for the next 30 days and start again afterwards if you’d like.

🌸6. MANIFESTING MONEY – Why it is not just given to you, what is required from you to make the money you desire out of your PURE PASSION, + how to be visible AF

🌸7. MANIFESTING RELATIONSHIPS – How I made my toxic, semi-abusive boyfriend be extra-nice to me, treat me like a Princess and shift his way of ating towards me completely by using just WORDS + How to get your SP.

Extra: in the group, I will share all of my favorite affirmation tapes, subliminals, people I follow, etc, that helped me manifest amazing things.

🌸8. MANIFESTING AMAZING EXPERIENCES – God doesn’t always want you to have exactly what you want NOW (spoiler alert!! πŸ˜…), he wants you to first learn enough so when you get there, you know what to do and how to act, however he does want you to have an enjoyable time on Earth while you learn, if you let him. So I will teach you how I live in a state of almost permanent joy and ease and how to have amazing experiences coming to you out of nowhere!…while you’re manifesting the BIG stuff.

🌸9. MANIFESTING IN GENERAL – You have no idea how much this one live will change your life – I have spent 12 years learning how to manifest, since I first heard about the Law of Attraction, and I’m sharing all I know with you!

🌸10. MANIFESTING WEIGHT LOSS/BODY CHANGES: How I lost 22 kgs (50 pounds) in 1.5 months by clearing my limiting beliefs and believing, affirming and being on a super easy diet. + any desired physical changes

🌸11. DEALING WITH OPPOSITION – Could be people, entities, whatever it is, I can show you how I dealt with narcissists, envy, mental health issues, authority, patriarchy, etc.

🌸12. CREATIVITY – How to open up your creative portal, and be able to paint with your hands (litterally and figuratively), Cook with intention, channel when you write and not have any creative blocks.

🌸13. VISIBILITY/SHAME – How to be visible and not care what other people think, how many likes you get and just DO YOU forever!

🌸14. CLEARING CHAKRAS: Everything you need to know.

🌸15. EXCITEMENT, JOY, PASSION: How to live that life you most desire NOW.

🌸16. BUSINESS : How to not be afraid to sell high(er) ticket, how to start/scale the business you most enjoy doing NOW, how to do it with EASE.

🌸17. HOW TO HOLD YOUR VISION UNTIL YOU GET THERE – I am one to never give up. I have always had a vision growing up and although I have gone through torment and upheaval, I have always woken up the next day and started again. I want to teach you how and why to be a woman that never gives up.

🌸18. EASEFUL ROUTINE – The most important part of manifestation is changing your vibration to align to your desired reality, so that also needs a change/shift in routine. I will give you great exemples of routines that work/have worked for me in the past and then create a routine for each one of you that you can follow.

🌸19. FEMININE RITUALS – Get in touch with your feminini and do some white witchcraft/self care rituals with me in order to attract more looks/mates/wealth/abundance/money

🌸20. BECOME THE CREATRIX – Sure, you’ve heard it, you are the creator of your reality, but do you understand that on a deeper level? Leave this course imprinted with the awareness that you create everything that exists. Much love.

For this course, I could have easilly asked for 10k, but this course is officially – 5.000 $
Schedule a Discovery call if you want to know even more juicy details and see if we are a match. πŸ™ƒπŸ˜ Or buy here directly:

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How to rewrite your past (in order to manifest better)

To explain this topic better, I first have to explain parallel realities.

Think about the word ‘tomorrow’. You read it in the present. And now you read this in the present. You also read “you said it” (past) in the present. You’re thinking about the past or the future, but you’re always doing it in the present now moment.

You see, great meditators who awaken from the illusion of Maia, realize this concept profoundly. Everything happens at once, as well as nothing ever happened, life is a dream/illusion.

Think about a movie. You can stop it at minute 12:15, and then at minute 12:16. You can screenshoot it, and take one image to China and one to the United States.

Although the movie seems to have a logical, linear story, you can mess up all the images in it and spread them all over the world.

That’s sort of how reality is. That means your most wanted desires happen now, and so do your worst nightmares. And everything you can possibly ever imagine exists in the timeless NOW, and you can align with it if you align to its frequency (how would it feel to you NOW to have that reality – think about it often until it gains momentum and it manifests).

So on the subject of changing your past, you can basically decide what your past was, and change it up as you wish.

Even though it might not feel true to your mind, that’s the only place that past exists – your mind. Otherwise you have no concrete proof of it in the present moment.

So change the story – I’ve been traumatized in my life enormosuly (in the linear story I align to now as I say this), however I made a small but important effort to say that I’ve always been happy, I always had everything I needed, I always had amazingly loving parents and every circumstance in my life was always extremely favorable.

That not only makes me feel better, but also helps me manifest better.

The stories we keep telling ourselves are so important. Because if in our minds we keep repeating our traumas, our sad, victimized stories, what we will get in our realities is proof that we are victims of our circumstances, proof that we can never succeed if we were abused and after many, many years from those abuses – you can already call it procrastination from doing what we desire and changing our habits and our circumstances because we were once in pain. And we keep recreating that pain.

Now nobody is saying you shouldn’t love yourself through the pain, love your inner child that got hurt. Nobody says you aren’t entitled to be angry or upset about what happened to you, however as you empower yourself and decide to shift that reality and live a better one, you can change the narative, the story into something that feels good, so that you also shift your vibration and attract better.

You can even change the people in the story and how they treated you, you can say and imagine how they treated you well, and forgive them for any hurt that they’ve caused.

If these people are still in your life, you might actually see a shift in them, too, after you have done this.

Again, no one is saying you are not entitled to your pain (no matter how big or small), however if you are at the point of wanting to shift from it, this is how to do it.

If it’s easier for you to write this new story out, by all means, do it. And if it’s easier to think about it or say it out loud, these are also relevant and ok options.

I hope I have helped. If you need further help, I could not recommend this next book more. Most of what I know is from this guy, Bentinho Massaro. He basically saved my ass from huge depression and helped me manifest a much better life for myself. The book is called: “Super Accelerated Living – How to manifest an epic life” and you can get it here. Hope this helps!

Much love!

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How to manifest enough money to stay at home and do whatever you want

So, to be honest, I’m not YET a millionaire success story, but I’m definitely manifesting it and having patience with it since I feel I’m on the right track. Remember, believing it before it’s manifested and seeing it as being already the case in the NOW is the first step in achieving it.

However, I used to have a super tiring 9-5, stressing out, never having enough money and now I’m successfully not doing anything and still getting money, food, cigarettes, clothes, perfumes, gifts, and I feel secure in flowing the way I feel like flowing in my day to day life, and still being supported.

How did I achieve that? This article is here to help you.

First of all, working on the belief that is saying you are not secure/supported even if you don’t do hard work or “try” all the time is essential.

Your beliefs should look like this:

“Receiving money is easy”

“Being supported by the Universe even if I stay in bed all day is natural and normal, because the Universe loves me”

“God wants me to have loads of money and always have whatever I need”

“If I had everything I needed in the first 9 months of my life, while I was in my mom’s belly, what makes me think I won’t always be supported?”

Trees and plants get everything they need like sun and water for their entire lives, and nobody asks trees to pay taxes or be charged for that. Whole eco-systems are entirely supported, divinely, to co-exist and thrive, but we as humans have all these rules that in order to survive we must work hard, hustle, and strive.

But what if we believed it all comes easy to us? What if we believed Divinity always supports us in ways we can’t even imagine?

A story that helped me see that as truth is that once I was working my 9-5 job as a cashier, and I had spent my entire salary in 3 days, my mom kept giving me what she could as food, and now she wasn’t available (she was living far enough from me so that we couldn’t see each other every day) and now I was at work, on the morning shift, 4-5 hours in, with no money, nothing to eat and starving.

But I didn’t have to wait long, that someone that was sitting in the cue, an old lady, came to me with a hot cheese pretzel and a banana and offered it to me. I felt so grateful! I ate under the cash register, almost in tears of happiness. Low and behold, a half an hour later, somebody else bought me a coffee.

I saw in that moment that God, or whatever you want to call it, takes care of all his children. That we might get into times of need or strife, only to receive blessings later, if we choose to see them as such.

Can you see that you were always supported? Can you see moments in your life when things like this happened to you? Can you see that you are alive and well, so far in your age, and somehow you didn’t die or were left behind?

The more you can ciment into your beliefs this assumption, that you are always supported and God takes care of you, and especially that hard work is not necessary for you to have money or a relaxed, independent from corporations, jobs, etc life, the more you will naturally get off the hamster wheel and onto the way of living on New Earth.

I never wonder where my next meal is going to come from, or how will I get what I need, I just know it will, it just comes to me. And it didn’t always used to be the case. Shift your beliefs, shift your reality. Another article of mine that might be useful is How to shift negative subconscious beliefs, click here to read it

One very important aspect though of being supported as I am (and I have barely worked in the last 2.5 years) is to actually be ON PURPOSE. God, the Angels and Spirit Guides WILL help you, but you have to be of service somehow, or on purpose.

Since I started this blog, and I’m helping people out for free (of course, I do have ads, but that’s at no extra cost to you), I’ve been receiving even more abundance. Whenever I consistently write on facebook to help people, I am even more supported.Because you see, we are never just here for ourselves, we are here to serve others too.

That’s not to say you are ever not fullfilling your purpose, and making lots of money can also be your purpose (next article I’m going to write is why money is Good vs Evil, as many subconsciously believe, so follow my blog if you want to check that out).

You are actually always on purpose, whether your purpose is to find out what your real purpose is, whether it is to say a kind word to a familly member or to enjoy a nice meal together.

Never believe your current job or where you are in life is not part of your purpose, it definitely is and God wouldn’t allow it if it wasn’t the case.

You are always exactly where you should be, and if you have a dream, follow it no matter how many setbacks you have and how long it takes for you to get there, because one day you will be happy you did, plus 0.1% progress per day is 36.5% progress a year, compared to 0% per day which still equates to 0% after a year.

I believe our purpose is to do at least that 0,1% a day, which some days could even mean resting, because when you rest and relax you get more space into your consciousness to receive and channel new information and creative ideas for our future.

So to always be abundant, is to be a vibrational match to that abundance, which means to believe you already have it. So ask yourself, what is keeping me from living an abundant lifestyle? And transform the answer you get into something positive, so that from now on you always live in perfect abundance!

How to change deeply-rooted beliefs in your subconscious

Subconscious beliefs, along with conscious ones, dictate what happens in our reality.

Say if we believe we are ugly and nobody likes us, naturally people won’t look as much at us when we walk down the street, or even if they do, in our minds we would conclude that they’re definitely not looking at us thinking we are interesting or beautiful/handsome.

It doesn’t even matter how you look, you could be the ugliest person in the room, if your beliefs match the idea that you are handsome/beautiful, than you will shine brightly, people will notice you and you will get many more interactions that confirm your belief that you are handsome/beautiful, like compliments, flirting, etc.

It’s easy to say that ok, I’ll change my belief now that I know this, and say I look great all the time, or that I have a lot of money, or whatever you want to change in your beliefs, but if you don’t BELIEVE it, on a subconscious level, on the level in which you were first impregnated with the idea that you are not beautiful enough, your outer reflections will stay the same.

So here’s my most trusted technique with which I changed many of my subconscious beliefs, and that is a journalling technique.

For example, in the example that I gave, on being beautiful/handsome, I would open up a notebook, and I would write: “What keeps me from being beautiful/handsome”.

Or, as another example: “What keeps me from making 1 million dollars a year”

On both these examples, reality-based, with concrete, evidence-based responses are not what I’m interested in getting as an answer.

More so, I want you to notice where in your body you contract/you have a negative feeling when you imagine having the reality you desire (in this example, being handsome/beautiful or having a lot of money).

I want you to breathe into that resistance, and see the images that come up.

Then you can journal what comes up, and find what, on a subconscious level, is keeping you from that. That can be a memory from your childhood (many times that’s where these beliefs stem from), or it could be an irrational fear, a shame, or a feeling of guilt.

As I always say, what doesn’t feel good in your body is not true, and what feels amazing is always true.

Which means what is true for us as beings is that we are loved, we are amazing, creative, courageous, beautiful/handsome, desirable, loveable, and all the things that feel amazing.

And the fact that we are not all those things, is not true, we believe in the opposite because that’s what our society has raised us to believe, to sell us more of their products and keep us believing we are small, unattractive, unimportant and not able to create our own realities.

That’s why I always say: we must call ourselves the most amazing beings in the Universe, and praise ourselves in all the ways, and call ourselves beautiful, loving names, and always love ourselves, because that creates a good vibration within our bodies, and so we naturally attract better things.

Staying in a victim mentality, where we are never good enough, we believe negative things about ourselves, creates realities in which these believes are reinforced: we have emotionally draining and toxic relationships that keep showing us our negative beliefs, and we never get exactly where we would want to be in life.

So the secret to uncovering subconscious, negative beliefs, is actually FEELING. Feeling where you don’t believe yourself to be enough. Feeling where you don’t already feel rich. Feeling where you are not the best person in your life.

And then putting it into words, as well as you can.

After that, what I’ve learned is it is very important to create new, positive beliefs, and repeat them daily.

So for example: “I am handsome/beautiful” or “I make a million dollars a year”.

The more you repeat, the more you will feel like that’s what is true. Plus, the more you repeat, the more the opposite that you already believe will show up, and it will be easier for you to see it if you just feel into it, and make sense of the belief you are holding. Then, keep believing and repeating the positive affirmation some more, until it feel like the easiest, most natural thing to you.

Of course the million dollars won’t come to you in a second (most likely), but the Universe always responds with creative ideas, opportunities, and things to do to take aligned action and create that million in your life. So it’s dependent upon you to create that, but if you already feel like a millionaire, all the time, even when you do the dishes or swipe your living room, even when you don’t have anything in your bank account, you will receive more than enough to be able to create and learn (to sell, to be a business person, to create better, etc ) through this journey we call Life.

How to always know the TRUTH with YES/NO questions

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Dear friends,

On the basis on which I make my life decisions, and always know what is true for me and what is not, I always respect this simple, yet powerful principle: what feels good is true, and what doesn’t- isn’t.

It’s simple, we all have a Higher Self, and this Higher Self shows us what is true for us and what isn’t by making us feel bad when we believe something that is out of alignment, and good when we believe (even subconsciously) something that is true for us.

On this principle, I always ask my spirit guides yes/no questions, and if the YES feels good, than that is what is true for me, and if it doesn’t, I try the NO, and if that feels good, then that is my answer.

Of course, there is a tricky part to it. The tricky part is that sometimes our spirit guides answer our questions based on our core beliefs. So say for example my dog is sick. I’m gonna ask my spirit guides if he’ll get well. If my core belief says it’s not gonna happen, then the NO is what is gonna resonate with me.

And here comes the creative part: we always create our realities, on a moment to moment basis, contingent upon what we believe on a core subconscious level about our reality. Therefore to change an end result, we must change our core beliefs about it.

Yes, we can find answers to our questions, and they might be true in the moment we ask them, however we still get to decide and create on top of that.

And here comes the part where to change our views and our realities regarding a certain topic, we must first dig deep into our subconscious, and change our core beliefs. My next article is called “How to change your subconscious beliefs about anything in your reality”, and here is the link to it if you’re interested: https://donaghenof.com/2021/10/12/how-to-change-deeply-rooted-beliefs-in-your-subconscious/

If you want to have an even clearer yes/no answer to your questions, directly from your spirit guides, you can buy a pendulum on Amazon. Here is three in different colors that have great reviews and that I’d reccommend:

https://amzn.to/3lzLboS This blue Aquamarine one.

https://amzn.to/3v2lnF8 This purple Amethyst one

https://amzn.to/3Ax2uLp Or this black Obsidian one

Here is a link to a youtube video that helps you understand how to use a pendulum, if you don’t already know:

However, if you want to use the free version, always know that what you feel inside your body, regarding anything, gives you a really good answer to what you are asking about.

Listening to our bodies hasn’t been taught to us as it should have, however, they know, even regarding our future, or any other topic we might want to ask about, what the truth is.

How does it make you feel? Good or bad? It’s as simple as that. Your body knows. Listen to it.

Much love,

Dona Ghenof