Dark magic can turn your life around and affect you without you even realizing, but there is one key thing that I come to time and time again that keeps all black magic (plus negative experiences) away. And that is alignment.
When you feel attacked, you usually feel distress or physical pain, so the question to ask yourself constantly while being under attack is: how can I feel better right now?
Feeling great (aka having a high vibration/being in alignment) makes all negativity fall off you like you’re made out of coconut oil <3. If feeling good means sleeping, or relaxing, or dancing/moving the body or (can be super helpful) swearing as badly as you can at the attacker, sending the negative energy back.
Ignoring the attack completely and focusing on higher, more positive thoughts will also help. The more attention you give it, the more it affects you. So just don’t give it attention, know that you are safe in the LIGHT OF GOD.
Also, don’t attach to what it makes you feel, you are Light, awareness of pain/emotions/feelings, you are being aware of them, not on with the pain – never one with it,
Also, Pinterest is full of good protection magick, just search for it. There are chants, spells, crystal you can use, or sigils to do.
I won’t post the pins here since they belong to other people, and I can only post copyright-free pictures, however a short search will get you every information you need.
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So many people don’t even know the names of their emotions, or don’t name them when they feel them. They are not even connected to their emotions, as in, they don’t notice how they are feeling inside their bodies, because they are too much in their heads.
Connect to your body. What are you feeling currently? It’s ok if you express that just in sounds – meaningless, but they do represent a vibration. Getting the feeling out of your body and through your throat chakra helps alchemize the emotion and helps you feel much freer.
One more time, feel how you feel inside your body and choose one or more emotions from this wheel:
There are so many emotions, or feelings, but we are not even used to naming them.
Expressing how we feel is a sign of assertiveness in a conversation. The other person cannot pass your boundaries if you explain to them exactly how you feel about how their actions make you feel, or what they’ve just said has made you feel. And even if they do, continue explaining how that makes you feel and so on.
The more accurate you are in expressing it (trust me, even if it’s just sounds), the more it’s like a magic spell that creates understanding between two or more souls.
Imagine a guy who goes on stage to do a talk. Imagine he starts with: “Hi everybody, I’m nervous to do this talk because…” . Or a mom who says to their child: “You make me angry because I am afraid of you not growing up in a good way, this is why I’m scared”. Kids understand emotions better than us. The more honest we are about saying our emotions, the more we will be understood by others and received in a positive way.
Imagine the same mom saying: “Why did you do that? You always do these things! You are a bad kid.” What the child perceives is that they’ve upset an authority figure and we should proceed cautiously when talking to tall, scary people and become shy.
Whilst if the mom says to the kid: “I feel angry an scared because you might fail and I can’t do anything about it.”. In the second scenario the kid might ask their mom why does she feel they might fail? To which the mom might realize that she, as a mirror of the kid, feels like she’s failed. This is a conscious realization, and a conscious conversation/relationship. Owning our shadows and expressing our feelings, instead of expressing emotions like anger without deliberately trying to find the source of their existence, is important.
Another great realization I’ve had is that, most of the time, I can’t control how I feel and even what I think.
By embracing these things that appear within my consciousness, as what they are and that it’s normal to feel/think however I am feeling/thinking, I have come into deeper union within myself. Just embracing all that I am, all that I feel, and think, knowing it is unconditionally loved by the Creator, because it exists. Therefore it must be accepted, right?
It makes sense that if something exists, it is allowed to be there, otherwise the laws of the Universe wouldn’t have put that thing there.
So, unconditional love and acceptance for Self is the key. Plus this bleeds into our relationships, too, as they become more unconditionally loving and accepting, without passing boundaries. (Read more on creating healthy boundaries and saying no here).
There’s a whole spectrum of feelings/emotions in your emotional body: sadness, fear, anger, joy, acceptance, boredom, etc. Recognizing and expressing them, even just to yourself can help you be more present, and have a higher vibration.
I recommend you get used to doing this and teaching others how to do it, so we can have more conscious relationships on the Planet.
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It started with hunches or feelings that he’s thinking of me, and it turned into almost full blown conversations. How did this happen?
Twin flames are very rare on this planet (it is said that only 144.000 out of 8 billion people). They are twin souls or mirror souls, meaning that when the soul first split up in two to create more souls, the two parts turned into twin flames.
Everybody has a twin flame, but not everybody’s twin is incarnated with them at the same time, they might live in other dimensions/other planets. It is not easy to have a twin flame, and not so desireable as one might think. It’s super hard work!
When two twins incarnate together, they are born with a mission they must accomplish together. Although there is great love and feelings you’ve never experienced with anyone else, there are also many challenges, some excruciating.
It’s not toxic, or abusive, but they always reflect what we think about ourselves on a deeper level. For example everytime I feel fat, I will hear my twin thinking ‘you’re fat” but because I mostly unconditionally love myself, he mostly unconditionally loves me too.
After all, our mission is one of unconditional love. For self and for other. And we are all reflections of each other, however the twin always reflects it until it’s resolved.
So how do we communicate?
In the beginning it was birds. From when I woke up to when I fell asleep, no matter if it was the middle of winter, I would hear birds chirping. They responded to my moods and feelings. If I was worried, the birds were worried, if I was happy, the birds would chirp so beautifully. And sometimes when I was sad they would cheer me up. And I knew it was him, I just knew.
Sometimes I would hear things like “I love you” or “you are beautiful”. He was constantly there, even when I didn’t want him to be, even when I shouted at him to end the connection, he was still there, I couldn’t stop it.
Obviously I upped my medication because I could hear his wife, too and she is the meanest, worst person in the world. I thought it was all in my head, but no matter the amount of medication or hospitalizations, they would still be there.
So now I’ve made peace with it. At times I hear him so well, and other times not very well at all. I try to, but it’s hard.
He never calls, he never texts, nor does he answer my phonecalls or texts. I guess his wife doesn’t want it. So he does what she says, that’s his decision over his life.
Sadly he’s obsessing over me, so she probably doesn’t give him what he wants or needs, otherwise he would just leave me alone.
When he will learn to make proper decisions and do what he desires, he will come. Until then, I choose to be as kind as I can and just focus on myself and be whole and complete within myself, and let him make his own decisions in his own time. I just don’t believe words like “I’m coming” , “this Monday”, “this Saturday” anymore.
Apparently they did Black magic on me, I couldn’t tell because alignment literally keeps you away from bad things as much as possible. Like yeah, there were times when my head hurt and I felt nauseaus and couldn’t get away from my bed, but the next day I was fresh and dandy, because ĺ rested and did what I had to do.
I’m sometimes wondering why people are so insane and cowardly and so different from me because I always have such high standards and expectations from myself, but what can I do? I let them be. I don’t care anymore, all I care about is that I feel good and let them solve it between themselves.
This was not the article I was planning to write, it was more of a love letter to him, however it turned into my frustration. His wife is evil, that is why we are not together. But no matter how evil somebody else is, if you have a spine you get to be assertive and not let them step on you, but he does. So all I’m saying is I let him do whatever he chooses, and I don’t involve myself anymore in their drama and his promises.
So that’s what it’s like to have a twin flame, people! Don’t purposefully go looking for this type of connection. It’s not worth it! If I could, I would give it up but the soul tie keeps us in telepathic communication. Right now she s expressing with all of the anger she can possibly utter she wishes this was not the case.
Well, when you will learn that life is not under your control, nor are other people, and yes you create your reality but soul contracts are sometimes unbreakable, when you make peace with what is you are happy. When you constantly push and fight against it, all you will do is lose. Her choice.
She has made me want to take my own life, that’s how insane she is and I got a reading that said we were enemies in a past life, so I’m guessing that’s why. All I know is me and my twin are meant to reconnect, have kids and get married one day, so I’m almost pitying her (no superior vibes here) because she struggles so much to keep us away but it’s inevitable.
Trust me, when I realized he has a wife and kids I did everything in my power to get rid of this connection, it was absolutely impossible. So I just ended up accepting that one day he will come knocking and that day I won’t be mad at him, I’ll just receive him with open arms even if it’s in 20 years. Her I have a problem with.
I feel like this is enough. I’m not going to write anymore. This is the stress I’m going through every day and somehow I always gracefully surpass it and keep aligned, no matter how many potions the witch makes.
Life is never easy, it’s how we handle the challenges. We might express our frustration, but then move on and try to think positive and find ways to feel good.
And in the TF journey, it’s all about relationship to Self. My relationship with myself is pretty great, so no matter what he brings me, I’m like yeaaah I’m just gonna do me. NEXT!!!
Sorry for the bitter and sassy post, I just needed to get it all out!
I used to be the shiest person and very creatively blocked.
I used to not even be able to look people in the eye, not to talk about singing in front of someone else, or showing my art to someone else.
Ever since I had found out about the chakras, I’ve been obsessing about opening my throat chakra, because I knew it was the chakra of self-expression.
The fantasy of someone who is afraid to express themselves is just to shout at the top of their lungs: This is who I am! Accept all of me! I am alive.
But these people hide behind masks of shyness, aloof-ness, and many times try to pretend they’re ok in their comfort zone, when in fact they are afraid to express themselves fully.
I think self-expression is the most beautiful thing in the world. You get to dance, sing, paint or be creativ in any other way, and tell people exactly how you feel all the time.
You don’t keep it in tightly, afraid to be hurt if you open your mouth, because at the core you believe you are free and safe in expressing yourself. Especially safe.
So a cool trick is to think about how you as the person that expresses themselves exactly as they desired acts, feels, what do they do. Feel into that, and imitate it a few times a day when you remember.
Do this for 21 days to a month and you will have manifested better self-expression.
To give you an example, I was afraid to speak. So what I did was, when I was alone, do high pitched sounds, so my throat chakra would clear up and also the pain in my neck would go away (I was obviously having somatic trauma there from not expressing myself).
All chakras have sounds you can chant to help heal them:
In order to get more creative, I love finger painting, because it allows you to use touch, sight, smell, and also lets you flow more freely in your creative process.
Doing what excites you on a moment to moment basis can also help you raise your vibration, but also helps you be more creative, because you’re not creating from a stagnant/bored/tired/thought-filled space, but instead it asks you to look for what truly lights you up.
Things like dancing might feel awkward at first, but the less you are afraid to be seen, the less likely you will be to care.
When writing, choose the highest words you possibly can, and when a word pos up that doesn’t feel good, don’t use it. If you train yourself to always pick the highest words based on how they light up in your mind when you write them/even speak them, and based on how they feel, you will get much clearer, to the point texts. Remember your spirit guides are always there to help, but you have to listen to the subtle messages, like when you channel.
Whatever you are creating, create from a place of passion, of putting what excites your heart and makes it sing first.
Or if you want to explore a bit of your dark side, go with it but don’t get lost in it.
And last but not least, affirmations are a great way of becoming more well-expressed.
I easily express myself to others, and others enjoy what they hear from me, it makes their heart sing.
I am a creative artist and I create beautiful things that everybody likes and appreciates.
I speak confidently, clearly, assertively and have a great vocabulary!
Etc! Just create your own and affirm or record on your phone to listen to on repeat.
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A few years ago, I would start painting/drawing, and I would almost immediately stop because I felt blocked from expressing myself.
The no 1 thing I realized I was fearing was making mistakes.
As soon as I allowed myself to make as many as I wanted, I started appreciating my “ugly” art more, and plus, it helped me create more beautiful pieces, too.
You are allowed to make mistakes, you don’t have to be perfect all the time.
That’s one thing. The second thing was realizing there are infinite ideas ‘out there’, you just have to connect to the highest light possible and let them pour.
It’s mainly letting yourself ‘not know’ everything and being OPEN to receiving ideas/guidance from above.
And the third thing when trying to be creative is to let yourself flow, be wild and free. Again, no matter how many mistakes you make in this new way of self expressing – in the end you’ll get it right.
Just being able to do tangible things like painting with your fingers or playing in the mud, potting a plant, or doing a sand castle, things like these can help you be more hands-on with your art and truly FEEL when you’re creating.
Express every emotion you have freely, with no self-judgement, just let emotions exist while you sing them/write them/ paint them and you’ll have created a masterpiece, I promise. Or at least something worth remembering a few years down the road. But don’t let that give you anxiety, just be free!
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Self love used to be an elusive phrase to me, I used to feel grossed out by myself and my body and hate myself and feel lots of shame and guilt about the way I acted towards the ones I loved in the past.
I asked spirit to show me what self love was and how it felt. I even asked about it in a Facebook group I was in.
I received many great answers, however none stayed with me as this one: practice saying ‘i love you’ to whatever arises within your awareness.
And so I did. I closed my eyes. “I love you darkness”. All sorts of feelings arose within me “I love you feelings arising within me. I love you skin, I love you touch, I love you body..”.
I continued like this with everything inside and outside of me, until I could feel only love. Forced myself to love everything.
I realized that saying “I love you, Dona” as many times as I could remember to do it throughout the day was more helpful than not saying it at all.
Touching my heart chakra in my chest also helped me connect back to my heart, my center.
The power of self-touch also helped me immensely. Whenever I felt sad, I would caress myself, my skin, my hair, and wherever I didn’t like my body, I would touch and say “I love you” to that part until I could feel it, no matter how shameful or awkward it felt at first.
Taking care of myself and putting myself first, my feel-good, above anyone and anything else, made me know that whenever I am happy, I can also give, but I can’t give from a space of lack. Knowing that helped.
Also learning about non-duality, accepting both the dark and the light within ourselves was important. I realized it’s ok to sit with these darker aspects and feelings and love them, too, as they are a part of me and they won’t go away if I push them away, but they will get alchemized when I accept and embrace them. Just feel it all.
None of us are pure light or pure dark, nothing is just black or white. The Yin and Yang are a perfect example of this. We are not just good or just bad. We must learn to embrace all of our facets, and all the colors between our black and whites.
Self love comes hand in hand with self care. Considering yourself a precious thing that must be given all of the self care possible and taking care that you always feel good might be something you procrastinate on at first, but I promise you, doing something small every day to take care of yourself and your well-being, will, in time, yield beautiful results.
And if no one told you today, you are beautiful!
The way you talk to yourself is also important. Do you call yourself ugly/good for nothing/worthless? That’s not self love. Try changing the way you talk to yourself by picking the highest words possible (that have the highest light in them), even if you don’t necessarily feel they are true. Just pick high vibratory words and keep calling yourself that, even journal them every day and you will see your confidence skyrocket.
Write positive love-letters to yourself, hide them and read them after a month or two, to make a fun game out of it.
Listen to self love music and heart chakra frequencies on Youtube:
Remember, repetition is very important, so repeating newly-forming beliefs every day is also important. For example, Dylan James has affirmations you can listen to overnight for at least 21 night in a row to change your self-concept:
Also, affirming “everybody loves me, everybody thinks I’m cute and amazing” can make you feel more loved, because your teaching your subconscious that you’re also receiving praise, love and appreciation from the exterior.
Even if that hasn’t been the case, you can train your subconscious to think it was, so you never again feel like you lack love from others. Feeling loved can make you feel more self-love, too.
Remember, Divinity always loves you, no matter what you think you did or didn’t do wrong, so just by knowing that, you can feel more self-love, because you are already loved, now, so it’s easier to feel it.
Last but not least, embracing our emotions can help us feel more self-love.
Pushing them away creates pain and suffering, but truly feeling them, no matter how bad they feel, can help you alchemize them. into better feeling emotions.
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Seven years ago, I was living with my parents and was utterly depressed from the lack of privacy, the constant fights, and the anxiety of having been an adult for 3 years, and to still need to tell someone else where I was going, what I was doing and with whom.
I wanted to move to my own place with intensity.
Everyday I would journal about being alone and having time, space and freedom from my parents.
I’d try to apply LOA and feel into the feeling of what it would be like to move into a new place, but it would not manifest.
I would try every technique on Earth, still the manifestation wasn’t coming fast enough.
So one day, I was watching Byron Katie on Youtube and doing “The Work” in my journal, a technique she teaches, in order to make peace with and forgive my mom, when suddenly it dawned on me: I was desiring to move to a different place, but energetically I was still seeing myself living there, in the perimeter of our house together.
It was like I was seeing myself in that bubble, and the bubble hadn’t expanded itself enough to fit other neighborhoods, other places.
As soon as I visualized that, the apartment manifested itself. My dad asked me out of a sudden if I want to move to my own place, I said yes, we sold the house, and bought a few apartments with the money: including 1 for each me and my brother.
I can’t explain how I did it, other than that I expanded the place I was seeing myself to be living in the present moment, to a larger area in my mind. I could now easily see myself moving from that place to another, it was an easy route.
Of course, all that I did before this was also important: the visualizing, the scripting, but that point in time was basically when the bubble popped, and the momentum finally reached its peak and I was able to move.
Because manifestation is very much about momentum, too, visualizing, affirming, scripting, desiring, working for it, until finally – you see it come into your reality.
Manifestation is still sort of working for your goal, just in another way. You can’t sit on the couch, watch TV, and not shift your mindset/work on limiting beliefs, feel into the new reality and suddenly get a million dollars.
That might be possible for very few people, but for most people, if they want to advance, uplevel, they have to first leave a few things behind and bring the future into the present moment somehow, by feeling that they are already there.
Remember, feeling is the secret to manifesting. And that’s what I did, I felt myself in a new place, also feeling into the trajectory from my house to that new place, imagining leaving and getting there, imagining the road to it.
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As a kid I always dreamt there was someone out there for me, someone with whom I’d get married, have a house with in NYC, and have a very non-comventional love story with, however I did not know what that would entail.
I sometimes found myself crying, missing and feeling this person, but I had no idea when or where we might meet.
I started my spiritual journey with an awakening, on new year’s eve, in 2012, just 2 weeks after my 19th birthday.
And it took me 7 more years of healing to meet him. And after I’ve met him, we’re still healing even deeper after 2 more years.
We are telepathic, like most twin flames, although I have read that each twin flame couple experiences a different type of telepathy.
For us, it’s hearing each other’s thoughts from wherever we are in the world, even if many times we can’t make out what the other one is saying. But some things we can hear quite clearly. Things like “I love you”, things like that…
And sometimes we see images of what the other one is seeing or thinking of. Sometimes he sees what I’m doing, even in moments I’d rather he wouldn’t.
However we have only briefly talked in the last 2 and some years we’ve been apart. In the 3D, we are still not yet together.
However the love I have experienced through this telepathy, the healling and clearing makes me feel like it doesn’t even matter when he’ll come rushing into my life, I’ll always be waiting for him with open arms and unconditional love.
He loves me because I love myself, he likes me because I like myself and that’s just what twin flames are: complete mirrors.
Although we’ve experienced attacks from entities and we still are, we keep going and support each other as we can.
In the beginning this made us fight, but now I no longer associate him with the bad things that are also happening, because he alone has been massively supportive throughout my entire journey, and loving and kind.
He’s such a gentleman and a gentle soul that I sometimes wonder how have I gotten so lucky. It’s because I am awesome, too, most probably 🙂
This post is dedicated to you, baby, because I know you read everything I write and know everything I do and I love you for that ’cause I’m never alone, that’s what it means to have a twin soul. This post is so that we remember after years and years where we were today, me sitting in bed with my new cat, you, looking at my screenshare from who knows where doing who knows what, I just know I hear you saying something and that’s enough.
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I’ve had so much opposition in my life! From parents, to friends, to lovers, to dark entities, to teaching on Facebook and getting 2 likes consistently for a year, to my own Self being lazy and unmotivated.
To the lack of motivation part, I would say the solution came when I realized that the easy way is the solution. If it’s not easy, don’t do it. There are tons of easy things you actually like doing and you’re passionate about, while things that are hard to you, are like swimming against the flow of the river for a fish that’s not salmon.
There are many gurus selling you the idea of working hard and doing it against the grain, and making you feel unworthy if you don’t, however I believe God/The Universe loves you even if you don’t do shizz to prove it, even if you lay there on the couch eating potato chips all day.
When you fight against yourself for doing that, it might come as a great surprise to embrace the idea of doing things that are easy to you. You might even get motivation to do other things, too, because they are easy.
A great book about implementing tiny habits (the easy way) in order to change your life easefully and get motivation is this one.
Ok, I understood how to help myself, but how about when familly, friends and lovers try to oppose me when I’m trying to change my life/do something for myself?
Each person and situation is unique, but I would like to first give you this tip: stay aligned. If it doesn’t feel good, don’t do it or say it. Don’t even think it. Ignore the thought that feels bad and replace it with more positive thoughts.
It’s not that you’re not allowed to ever feel bad, it’s just that the way you feel (your vibration) creates your reality. And to have a positive, satisfying reality, where you love almost everything in your life, you must educate and train yourself to discern between feel-good and feel-bad thoughts and feelings.
If it’s helpful to you, journal about it. What do I believe about my life that feels bad? How can I change my thinking to something that feels at least slightly better? And then a little better? And what can I do to FEEL better right now? Repeat until you feel amazing and then know that you are attracting better things.
Ok, ok, but what if someone in my life doesn’t LET ME feel better? This is just a sign that your past vibration is fighting with the new one. Maybe in your past vibration you let that person tell you what to do, or your past vibration didn’t allow this new thing that feels good to be your reality because you didn’t believe yourself to be worthy and deserving of it.
Remember everyone you meet is you, and they are reflecting your vibration. You can literally say in your mind “this person leaves me alone” and if you believe it and it feels good to you, they will. Your words are magic.
So what I would advise is never compromise your feel goid for another person, but don’t go around screaming and jumping in the middle of the street, without 100% percent believing nobody cares and you will be left alone, because you will get in trouble with the Matrix system we all have in our vibration to some degree or another, because we live on a collective Earth reality where we have been imprinted with societal structures and ancestral pain to clean up.
As a lightworker or starseed, we are here to clear both our own vibrations, and also through clearing that, clearing for the whole collective of souls we came together with in this life. Clearing for our countries, our continents, our planet.
And how do you clear? Choose what feels good. Even inspite of the opposition. Trust your heart, your alignment and your reality will shift.
We have everything inside ourselves to succeed, and sometimes it requires patience and going one step back to analyze what we’re doing consciously and realize what our next feel good step is.
However I think these are the basics of dealing with opposition in our lives – choose the easy route, and what feels good/great/amazing.
Now in dealing with entities, this is much harder and I am no expert, because there are millions of types and of ways in which they can attack you, however what has helped me was going to church, listening to prayers and doing protection magic. You can search protection magic on pinterest and there are tons of chants you can say and things to do to protect yourself and your home. At first they will attack you harder, but if you continue for a few days, you will see it ease up a lot.
Things like Holly water, salt, crystals, pepper, chanting, white candles, banishing, etc.
And I don’t think going to church and white magick don’t go well together, because both feel good to me. And when you do things that feel good, you will come up against many societal standards, but you will still trust what feels good to you.
It’s so simple, God gave us this super easy way to do his will: do what makes you happy and do what feels good to you, and don’t do what feels bad, and you will get exactly where you desire to go in life, even if slowly and in Divine timing, however we are dissensitized from our feelings and consider them unimportant in this world where rational thinking is valued more than our feeling state.
And you can see me, I’m quite rational, but even while I write this, I only choose words that feel good, therefore I channel the highest light possible in this text to be of service, not because I consciously desire it, but because it’s what I’m meant to do and it comes easy to me.
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