How to persevere when opposing forces try to trick you into staying where you are.

I’ve had so much opposition in my life! From parents, to friends, to lovers, to dark entities, to teaching on Facebook and getting 2 likes consistently for a year, to my own Self being lazy and unmotivated.

To the lack of motivation part, I would say the solution came when I realized that the easy way is the solution. If it’s not easy, don’t do it. There are tons of easy things you actually like doing and you’re passionate about, while things that are hard to you, are like swimming against the flow of the river for a fish that’s not salmon.

There are many gurus selling you the idea of working hard and doing it against the grain, and making you feel unworthy if you don’t, however I believe God/The Universe loves you even if you don’t do shizz to prove it, even if you lay there on the couch eating potato chips all day.

When you fight against yourself for doing that, it might come as a great surprise to embrace the idea of doing things that are easy to you. You might even get motivation to do other things, too, because they are easy.

A great book about implementing tiny habits (the easy way) in order to change your life easefully and get motivation is this one.

Ok, I understood how to help myself, but how about when familly, friends and lovers try to oppose me when I’m trying to change my life/do something for myself?

Each person and situation is unique, but I would like to first give you this tip: stay aligned. If it doesn’t feel good, don’t do it or say it. Don’t even think it. Ignore the thought that feels bad and replace it with more positive thoughts.

It’s not that you’re not allowed to ever feel bad, it’s just that the way you feel (your vibration) creates your reality. And to have a positive, satisfying reality, where you love almost everything in your life, you must educate and train yourself to discern between feel-good and feel-bad thoughts and feelings.

If it’s helpful to you, journal about it. What do I believe about my life that feels bad? How can I change my thinking to something that feels at least slightly better? And then a little better? And what can I do to FEEL better right now? Repeat until you feel amazing and then know that you are attracting better things.

Ok, ok, but what if someone in my life doesn’t LET ME feel better? This is just a sign that your past vibration is fighting with the new one. Maybe in your past vibration you let that person tell you what to do, or your past vibration didn’t allow this new thing that feels good to be your reality because you didn’t believe yourself to be worthy and deserving of it.

Remember everyone you meet is you, and they are reflecting your vibration. You can literally say in your mind “this person leaves me alone” and if you believe it and it feels good to you, they will. Your words are magic.

So what I would advise is never compromise your feel goid for another person, but don’t go around screaming and jumping in the middle of the street, without 100% percent believing nobody cares and you will be left alone, because you will get in trouble with the Matrix system we all have in our vibration to some degree or another, because we live on a collective Earth reality where we have been imprinted with societal structures and ancestral pain to clean up.

As a lightworker or starseed, we are here to clear both our own vibrations, and also through clearing that, clearing for the whole collective of souls we came together with in this life. Clearing for our countries, our continents, our planet.

And how do you clear? Choose what feels good. Even inspite of the opposition. Trust your heart, your alignment and your reality will shift.

We have everything inside ourselves to succeed, and sometimes it requires patience and going one step back to analyze what we’re doing consciously and realize what our next feel good step is.

However I think these are the basics of dealing with opposition in our lives – choose the easy route, and what feels good/great/amazing.

Now in dealing with entities, this is much harder and I am no expert, because there are millions of types and of ways in which they can attack you, however what has helped me was going to church, listening to prayers and doing protection magic. You can search protection magic on pinterest and there are tons of chants you can say and things to do to protect yourself and your home. At first they will attack you harder, but if you continue for a few days, you will see it ease up a lot.

Things like Holly water, salt, crystals, pepper, chanting, white candles, banishing, etc.

And I don’t think going to church and white magick don’t go well together, because both feel good to me. And when you do things that feel good, you will come up against many societal standards, but you will still trust what feels good to you.

It’s so simple, God gave us this super easy way to do his will: do what makes you happy and do what feels good to you, and don’t do what feels bad, and you will get exactly where you desire to go in life, even if slowly and in Divine timing, however we are dissensitized from our feelings and consider them unimportant in this world where rational thinking is valued more than our feeling state.

And you can see me, I’m quite rational, but even while I write this, I only choose words that feel good, therefore I channel the highest light possible in this text to be of service, not because I consciously desire it, but because it’s what I’m meant to do and it comes easy to me.

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Admit defeat to your limiting beliefs!

One quick and easy way to get rid of a limiting belief is to affirm the belief, as it is believed by you already, as if it were absolutely true – even though it isn’t necessarily, but it also is, since The Universe is non-dual, therefore the truth is in both the polarities of one belief.

Let me explain! Since what I wrote there – I’m not sure it might even make even sense to me were I to read it without knowing what I meant.

If you believe you’re ‘stupid”, but you want to make yourself believe you’re smart, so as to change your self-concept to a better one, with better beliefs, you must first admit the first belief – that you are stupid. Not because you are, but because you believe it.

If all you desire in your life is to be smart, and you run around chasing that, trying to get validation from everybody, not getting it (obviously, because you don’t believe it) – you will sigh a deep sigh of relaxation when you finally admit it – “I am stupid!”.

You will kiss the Earth and jump of joy in disbelief. It was so simple! To admit it in this case, is to say – I don’t care if anyone thinks I’m stupid, I already admitted it to myself, therefore, what and whom have I got to lose?

If people will call me stupid, I won’t feel even the tiniest bit triggered, since I’ve admitted it, so I have nothing to hide.

Again, it doesn’t mean the guy or girl in the example is actually stupid. He/she just had a belief that said that, and instead of admitting, he/she tried to prove themselves as smart.

Now that they’ve admitted, it’s much easier to see and admit the opposite – that they are, indeed, smart. They can suddenly see all the ways in which they are smart.

Now to explain a bit about the last part of the first paragraph I wrote here in this post, just to make a paranthesis.

This world is dual (good/bad, ugly/beautiful, stupid/smart, white/black), but God, or Source is non-dual, therefore to get closer to the truth of who we really are, we must encompass all the polarities. Therefore we must know and accept ourselves as both stupid and smart, beautiful and ugly, light and dark, good and bad.

Think about that for a moment.

Now to go back to the subject of the post, admitting defeat to our limiting beliefs, we can do that to any belief.

Let’s say our deepest desire was to become rich. But because we are not there yet, we certainly are seeing ourselves as poor in one way or another. Even if we are not poor per se, the belief is there.

Same goes with unworthiness. “I am unworthy of riches, unworthy of love”, unworthy of this or that.

And suddenly a whole world opens up. A world where it’s comfortable to sit in our mud for a little bit and just contemplate our beliefs from their own point of view, and therefore point of attraction.

Because, of course, what we believe, even subconsciously, we attract. So the more we believe those negative things, the more we attract them.

So go ahead, what belief have you uncovered today that you can turn around?

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