As a kid I always dreamt there was someone out there for me, someone with whom I’d get married, have a house with in NYC, and have a very non-comventional love story with, however I did not know what that would entail.
I sometimes found myself crying, missing and feeling this person, but I had no idea when or where we might meet.
I started my spiritual journey with an awakening, on new year’s eve, in 2012, just 2 weeks after my 19th birthday.
And it took me 7 more years of healing to meet him. And after I’ve met him, we’re still healing even deeper after 2 more years.
We are telepathic, like most twin flames, although I have read that each twin flame couple experiences a different type of telepathy.
For us, it’s hearing each other’s thoughts from wherever we are in the world, even if many times we can’t make out what the other one is saying. But some things we can hear quite clearly. Things like “I love you”, things like that…
And sometimes we see images of what the other one is seeing or thinking of. Sometimes he sees what I’m doing, even in moments I’d rather he wouldn’t.
However we have only briefly talked in the last 2 and some years we’ve been apart. In the 3D, we are still not yet together.
However the love I have experienced through this telepathy, the healling and clearing makes me feel like it doesn’t even matter when he’ll come rushing into my life, I’ll always be waiting for him with open arms and unconditional love.
He loves me because I love myself, he likes me because I like myself and that’s just what twin flames are: complete mirrors.
Although we’ve experienced attacks from entities and we still are, we keep going and support each other as we can.
In the beginning this made us fight, but now I no longer associate him with the bad things that are also happening, because he alone has been massively supportive throughout my entire journey, and loving and kind.
He’s such a gentleman and a gentle soul that I sometimes wonder how have I gotten so lucky. It’s because I am awesome, too, most probably 🙂
This post is dedicated to you, baby, because I know you read everything I write and know everything I do and I love you for that ’cause I’m never alone, that’s what it means to have a twin soul. This post is so that we remember after years and years where we were today, me sitting in bed with my new cat, you, looking at my screenshare from who knows where doing who knows what, I just know I hear you saying something and that’s enough.
If you want me to write our twin flame story or give advice, please comment and let me know.
I used to be the type of person who said yes to things she really meant to say no to, and that was hurting me a lot because I made decisions that led me to take actions that were not good for my soul and hurt my soul deeply.
So the first thing that helped me shift this, was desiring to shift it. – desire is powerful!
And the next really helpful step was praying that I can shift it, and believing I will receive help.
I decided that even if my voice was trembling and shaking, I would still say no when I needed to.
And so now I am a person who can say no to almost anyone and any situation.
I held my ex-boyfriend outside in the cold, with him trying any tactic on Earth to try to seduce me and get inside and I still said no.
And this is all because I realized that even if by saying no I’m perceiving the other person to get hurt, if I say yes, I hurt myself. So I decided to put myself first.
Alignment to self is more important than what other people say, do or think, because by feeling great inside with our decisions, we heal other people, too.
Even if when we say no, the other person gets seemingly hurt, they might have a lesson to learn from that pain. Because life is not without pain, that is impossible. But the lessons we learn from that pain are also valuable.
So if you want to say no, but are afraid you might hurt another, know that you are not hurting, but helping.
What you seek is seeking you, so if your truth is a no, you will be mesmerized how quickly people will actually accept it, when you really mean it and say it assuredly.
Do what you want in life! You only have one life, at least with this character you’re playing now and these circumstances.
Don’t do what others want you to do, unless it feels good to you. Otherwise you are hurting yourself!
And you are a very special, important human being. Why would you accept being treated badly or doing something that does not feel good to you?
Believe in your worth, affirm that you have a lot of self worth and you matter and you will never let anyone step on you ever again!
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I’ve had so much opposition in my life! From parents, to friends, to lovers, to dark entities, to teaching on Facebook and getting 2 likes consistently for a year, to my own Self being lazy and unmotivated.
To the lack of motivation part, I would say the solution came when I realized that the easy way is the solution. If it’s not easy, don’t do it. There are tons of easy things you actually like doing and you’re passionate about, while things that are hard to you, are like swimming against the flow of the river for a fish that’s not salmon.
There are many gurus selling you the idea of working hard and doing it against the grain, and making you feel unworthy if you don’t, however I believe God/The Universe loves you even if you don’t do shizz to prove it, even if you lay there on the couch eating potato chips all day.
When you fight against yourself for doing that, it might come as a great surprise to embrace the idea of doing things that are easy to you. You might even get motivation to do other things, too, because they are easy.
A great book about implementing tiny habits (the easy way) in order to change your life easefully and get motivation is this one.
Ok, I understood how to help myself, but how about when familly, friends and lovers try to oppose me when I’m trying to change my life/do something for myself?
Each person and situation is unique, but I would like to first give you this tip: stay aligned. If it doesn’t feel good, don’t do it or say it. Don’t even think it. Ignore the thought that feels bad and replace it with more positive thoughts.
It’s not that you’re not allowed to ever feel bad, it’s just that the way you feel (your vibration) creates your reality. And to have a positive, satisfying reality, where you love almost everything in your life, you must educate and train yourself to discern between feel-good and feel-bad thoughts and feelings.
If it’s helpful to you, journal about it. What do I believe about my life that feels bad? How can I change my thinking to something that feels at least slightly better? And then a little better? And what can I do to FEEL better right now? Repeat until you feel amazing and then know that you are attracting better things.
Ok, ok, but what if someone in my life doesn’t LET ME feel better? This is just a sign that your past vibration is fighting with the new one. Maybe in your past vibration you let that person tell you what to do, or your past vibration didn’t allow this new thing that feels good to be your reality because you didn’t believe yourself to be worthy and deserving of it.
Remember everyone you meet is you, and they are reflecting your vibration. You can literally say in your mind “this person leaves me alone” and if you believe it and it feels good to you, they will. Your words are magic.
So what I would advise is never compromise your feel goid for another person, but don’t go around screaming and jumping in the middle of the street, without 100% percent believing nobody cares and you will be left alone, because you will get in trouble with the Matrix system we all have in our vibration to some degree or another, because we live on a collective Earth reality where we have been imprinted with societal structures and ancestral pain to clean up.
As a lightworker or starseed, we are here to clear both our own vibrations, and also through clearing that, clearing for the whole collective of souls we came together with in this life. Clearing for our countries, our continents, our planet.
And how do you clear? Choose what feels good. Even inspite of the opposition. Trust your heart, your alignment and your reality will shift.
We have everything inside ourselves to succeed, and sometimes it requires patience and going one step back to analyze what we’re doing consciously and realize what our next feel good step is.
However I think these are the basics of dealing with opposition in our lives – choose the easy route, and what feels good/great/amazing.
Now in dealing with entities, this is much harder and I am no expert, because there are millions of types and of ways in which they can attack you, however what has helped me was going to church, listening to prayers and doing protection magic. You can search protection magic on pinterest and there are tons of chants you can say and things to do to protect yourself and your home. At first they will attack you harder, but if you continue for a few days, you will see it ease up a lot.
Things like Holly water, salt, crystals, pepper, chanting, white candles, banishing, etc.
And I don’t think going to church and white magick don’t go well together, because both feel good to me. And when you do things that feel good, you will come up against many societal standards, but you will still trust what feels good to you.
It’s so simple, God gave us this super easy way to do his will: do what makes you happy and do what feels good to you, and don’t do what feels bad, and you will get exactly where you desire to go in life, even if slowly and in Divine timing, however we are dissensitized from our feelings and consider them unimportant in this world where rational thinking is valued more than our feeling state.
And you can see me, I’m quite rational, but even while I write this, I only choose words that feel good, therefore I channel the highest light possible in this text to be of service, not because I consciously desire it, but because it’s what I’m meant to do and it comes easy to me.
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🌿🧚♀️My dad always used to call me as a kid “Daddy’s little princess”. He spoiled me with vacations, gifts, good food (hello, huge jar of caviar) and paid for courses, tennis, dancing classes, English classes, everything I needed.
🌿🧚♀️In return, I was elegant, poised, did extremely well in school, had good self-esteem and had a BIG future ahead of me. A total princess.
🌿🧚♀️However, Rumpelstiltskin had other plans for me.
🌿🧚♀️Because I was so bright and full of light, the Evil side wanted me to collapse and become Cinderella.
🌿🧚♀️So one day I fell from grace, traumatized, emotionally abused, and I was CURSED by my own CREATRIX power that decided this, to NOT feel again, and to be BAD.
🌿🧚♀️Years and years, I walked through dark, thorny forrests, with only a small lamp full of flies, the Light of my consciousness.
🌿🧚♀️I didn’t remember who I was, what my purpose was, and instead of following my feel good, I let my ego dictate and followed what others wanted for me, getting lost deeeep in the forrest of my own thoughts.
🌿🧚♀️One day, my King Brother woke me up from the deep slumber I was in, by giving me Snake Poison – a rude awakening, and in small doses, helpful and motivating.
🌿🧚♀️And SO I began my Journey: started meditating, practicing presence, self care, self love, self compassion, forgave myself, went through big shifts, dark nights of the soul and in a “short” 10 years I was back to my Princessy-ass SELF.
🌿🧚♀️I learned how to manifest, and as I was manifesting a million dollars to travel, my King Brother invited me to a one week trip to the foreign land of Amsterdam. We spent a beautiful time, sipping coffee, trying out magic mushrooms, and admiring the Kingdom.
🌿🧚♀️As I was manifesting my best life, my friends asked me out to restaurants where I sipped enchanting beverages such as Bailey’s Frappes, Kiwi and Mango Lemonade, and had ravishing dishes such as chinese beef with rice (a foreign dish to these lands). Did I pay for it? Of course not. Does a Princess ever pay for joy and happiness, being spoiled and having lovely conversations over dinner? HELL NO!!
🌿🧚♀️After that I had other amazing experiences, letters of love by my one and only Twin Flame, looks and offers from other admirers that I cordially refused, not caring one bit that they’d suffer from my refusal, because I knew that if it’s not my prefference, they won’t suffer, and if they did, it was a good lesson for them to get past rejection – therefore my secret princessy NO is always divinely accurate and healing.
🌿🧚♀️Champagne, perfume, clothes, being divinely supported – all happened to me and are still happening whilst I value my alignment and use all the tools I have learned in those almost 10 years of re-learning and self development.
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What keeps us from having more money than we could possibly hold in our hands, is quite simply, our beliefs.
When we are aligned with the energy of receiving money constantly, consistently, for the work that we love and our passionate about, clients, opportunities and money flocks to use in immesurate amounts.
Quite simply, the more money we believe we are worthy and deserving of getting, the more we receive it, easefully.
I’ve been interested in selling my course, “The Manifesting Princess” to my audience on Facebook.
Here is what I’m offering in the course:
The 20 LIVES in my coaching container for 20 beings will have these topics:
🌸1. ALIGNMENT & BOUNDARIES – How to stay aligned even when everybody in your life energetically tells you otherwise and what is deep alignment
🌸2. BOUNDARIES – How to always know how and when to say a profund, complete NO and how to take time for yourself when you need it without sacrificing business, money, relationships
🌸3. FREEDOM – How to feel free within yourself, how to use your throat chakra to ask for whatever you want and get it, + journalling techniques to feel FREE
🌸4. LIMITING BELIEFS – We work together to debunk any limiting beliefs you might have regarding money, relationships and health. I show you how I do it.
🌸5. MANIFESTING (1) – My 2 Pinterest techniques that have worked wonders for me, and how to use them – we do this together as a DIY project and you get to use this technique for the next 30 days and start again afterwards if you’d like.
🌸6. MANIFESTING MONEY – Why it is not just given to you, what is required from you to make the money you desire out of your PURE PASSION, + how to be visible AF
🌸7. MANIFESTING RELATIONSHIPS – How I made my toxic, semi-abusive boyfriend be extra-nice to me, treat me like a Princess and shift his way of ating towards me completely by using just WORDS + How to get your SP.
Extra: in the group, I will share all of my favorite affirmation tapes, subliminals, people I follow, etc, that helped me manifest amazing things.
🌸8. MANIFESTING AMAZING EXPERIENCES – God doesn’t always want you to have exactly what you want NOW (spoiler alert!! 😅), he wants you to first learn enough so when you get there, you know what to do and how to act, however he does want you to have an enjoyable time on Earth while you learn, if you let him. So I will teach you how I live in a state of almost permanent joy and ease and how to have amazing experiences coming to you out of nowhere!…while you’re manifesting the BIG stuff.
🌸9. MANIFESTING IN GENERAL – You have no idea how much this one live will change your life – I have spent 12 years learning how to manifest, since I first heard about the Law of Attraction, and I’m sharing all I know with you!
🌸10. MANIFESTING WEIGHT LOSS/BODY CHANGES: How I lost 22 kgs (50 pounds) in 1.5 months by clearing my limiting beliefs and believing, affirming and being on a super easy diet. + any desired physical changes
🌸11. DEALING WITH OPPOSITION – Could be people, entities, whatever it is, I can show you how I dealt with narcissists, envy, mental health issues, authority, patriarchy, etc.
🌸12. CREATIVITY – How to open up your creative portal, and be able to paint with your hands (litterally and figuratively), Cook with intention, channel when you write and not have any creative blocks.
🌸13. VISIBILITY/SHAME – How to be visible and not care what other people think, how many likes you get and just DO YOU forever!
🌸14. CLEARING CHAKRAS: Everything you need to know.
🌸15. EXCITEMENT, JOY, PASSION: How to live that life you most desire NOW.
🌸16. BUSINESS : How to not be afraid to sell high(er) ticket, how to start/scale the business you most enjoy doing NOW, how to do it with EASE.
🌸17. HOW TO HOLD YOUR VISION UNTIL YOU GET THERE – I am one to never give up. I have always had a vision growing up and although I have gone through torment and upheaval, I have always woken up the next day and started again. I want to teach you how and why to be a woman that never gives up.
🌸18. EASEFUL ROUTINE – The most important part of manifestation is changing your vibration to align to your desired reality, so that also needs a change/shift in routine. I will give you great exemples of routines that work/have worked for me in the past and then create a routine for each one of you that you can follow.
🌸19. FEMININE RITUALS – Get in touch with your feminini and do some white witchcraft/self care rituals with me in order to attract more looks/mates/wealth/abundance/money
🌸20. BECOME THE CREATRIX – Sure, you’ve heard it, you are the creator of your reality, but do you understand that on a deeper level? Leave this course imprinted with the awareness that you create everything that exists. Much love.
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To explain this topic better, I first have to explain parallel realities.
Think about the word ‘tomorrow’. You read it in the present. And now you read this in the present. You also read “you said it” (past) in the present. You’re thinking about the past or the future, but you’re always doing it in the present now moment.
You see, great meditators who awaken from the illusion of Maia, realize this concept profoundly. Everything happens at once, as well as nothing ever happened, life is a dream/illusion.
Think about a movie. You can stop it at minute 12:15, and then at minute 12:16. You can screenshoot it, and take one image to China and one to the United States.
Although the movie seems to have a logical, linear story, you can mess up all the images in it and spread them all over the world.
That’s sort of how reality is. That means your most wanted desires happen now, and so do your worst nightmares. And everything you can possibly ever imagine exists in the timeless NOW, and you can align with it if you align to its frequency (how would it feel to you NOW to have that reality – think about it often until it gains momentum and it manifests).
So on the subject of changing your past, you can basically decide what your past was, and change it up as you wish.
Even though it might not feel true to your mind, that’s the only place that past exists – your mind. Otherwise you have no concrete proof of it in the present moment.
So change the story – I’ve been traumatized in my life enormosuly (in the linear story I align to now as I say this), however I made a small but important effort to say that I’ve always been happy, I always had everything I needed, I always had amazingly loving parents and every circumstance in my life was always extremely favorable.
That not only makes me feel better, but also helps me manifest better.
The stories we keep telling ourselves are so important. Because if in our minds we keep repeating our traumas, our sad, victimized stories, what we will get in our realities is proof that we are victims of our circumstances, proof that we can never succeed if we were abused and after many, many years from those abuses – you can already call it procrastination from doing what we desire and changing our habits and our circumstances because we were once in pain. And we keep recreating that pain.
Now nobody is saying you shouldn’t love yourself through the pain, love your inner child that got hurt. Nobody says you aren’t entitled to be angry or upset about what happened to you, however as you empower yourself and decide to shift that reality and live a better one, you can change the narative, the story into something that feels good, so that you also shift your vibration and attract better.
You can even change the people in the story and how they treated you, you can say and imagine how they treated you well, and forgive them for any hurt that they’ve caused.
If these people are still in your life, you might actually see a shift in them, too, after you have done this.
Again, no one is saying you are not entitled to your pain (no matter how big or small), however if you are at the point of wanting to shift from it, this is how to do it.
If it’s easier for you to write this new story out, by all means, do it. And if it’s easier to think about it or say it out loud, these are also relevant and ok options.
I hope I have helped. If you need further help, I could not recommend this next book more. Most of what I know is from this guy, Bentinho Massaro. He basically saved my ass from huge depression and helped me manifest a much better life for myself. The book is called: “Super Accelerated Living – How to manifest an epic life” and you can get it here. Hope this helps!
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A few years ago I was a stressed out mess, I worked a 9-5 job that took all my power away and I was constantly worrying : when will I succeed? When will I have enough money?
I stumbled upon a few articles like this one that talked about living in ease. The thought of trying the easy way sounded good at a time when all I did was hard, however I was skeptical. How could not doing anything all day bring me all that I wanted and needed?
However I decided to give it a try.
I repeated the words “easy, Dona, easy” in my mind every half a minute or so to see what decision I could take next that would help me live more easefully.
I relaxed as much as I could, even while doing harder tasks, like at my then-job as a cashier.
When I was in conflict with someone, I repeated the same words and the conflict would find resolution. Why? Because instead of contracting and stressing out, I would find the more peaceful way out of it.
The more I did this , the more it became a way of living. The more I made decisions that were in line with this.
And the more even harder tasks became easier because I was rested.
We know that stress causes most illnesses, so why is it that our masculine, action – driven society keeps telling us to use force when taking action? Instead the feminine ease and flow.
Why are we not taught this in schools? Ease does not make you lazy, it makes you more relaxed in all that you do.
It also gives great results abundance-wise. Since I’ve been living a life of ease, I’ve had more money and gifts coming to me out of nowhere than ever before.
Somehow, the more I stressed, the less money I made.
The more I relaxed, the easier life has become.
What you are, you attract. So you can attract a life that is easy, where everything comes to you easilly, if that’s what you show the Universe you are/you believe yourself to be.
It’s as simple as always choosing the easy path. And it has real benefits! I can attest to those, so can a couple of my friends who have tried it.
Now go on, live a life of ease. You are worthy of destressing and putting the hardships down! You are worthy of relaxing. You are allowed to do so!
Please try it out and tell me how it went!
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Eckhart Tolle’s book “The Power of Now” sold millions of copies, however we still spend 90% of our days in our heads, thinking and thinking in loops, not recognizing something so beautiful and so immediate: the present moment.
A few good reasons to be more present would be to 1. Be more grateful for what we have now, instead of constantly chasing for more in the future and 2. To not live in the past either, where we constantly replay negative experiences and trauma.
If you want to be more present, here is a wonderful technique that can help you achieve just that: “the 2-5 second technique”.
This form of meditation is perfect for the busy mom/entrepreneur or to be honest, for anyone who decides to make the smallest but most effective commitment to be more present. It is easy and can be done at any moment throughout the day, wherever you are.
This technique can be explained this way: Stop your mind altogether for 2-5 seconds, 12 to 24 times a day, or whenever you remember.
You can also set a timer to do it using a reminder app.
When you stop your mind for even 2 seconds, you make space in your brain to do other tasks, reorganize, and clear negativity.
Simply put, meditation, even as small as for 2-5 seconds, acts as a “cooler” acts for a computer, except you do it to the brain.
The result is a more spacious, free, and also creative view of reality. Because when you have space in your brain, your Higher Self can also download new creative solutions to your mind, that were kept off from your consciousness before because you were too interested by “did I do that correctly?” “have I said something wrong to Tim?” etc.
When you relax, destress, and stop worrying, you get into a state of mind where you now have space for other things, too, and you can also work better and be a better person/parent/teacher/friend.
I recommend this short but useful type of meditation to anyone, anywhere. You can do it in the bus, at work, while you get dressed, while you sip your morning coffee, or any other time! Keep doing it for a month and see incredible results!
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